Pregnancy, Postpartum Difficulties, Infertility, and Motherhood
Becoming a mother. Our world is filled with fairy tale like stories of the motherhood journey but some women find themselves on a different kind of journey – one they never expected.
Pregnancy and Postpartum Related Mood and Anxiety
Some women, once becoming pregnant or upon giving birth, begin feeling not like themselves. These women move through pregnancy and/or the postpartum experience feeling increasingly overwhelmed and exhausted. They can feel inadequate, anxious, sad, unmotivated, confused, angry – and even sometimes have terrifying thoughts. Sleep deprived and desperate to cope, these new Moms inch further away from normal. They increasingly feel despair and or panic while trying to hide the turmoil inside.
These women are not failing motherhood. Rather they are experiencing the symptoms of pregnancy related anxiety and depression, the most common complication of childbirth. These symptoms have an all too real biological basis, and unfortunately do not get better on their own.
Fortunately, postpartum anxiety and depression is 100% treatable with a combination of supportive therapy, and in some cases, medication that is well established in the research literature as safe for both the mother and developing baby. Working cooperatively with you, your partner and other health care providers, you can soon feel normal again as life moves on for you and your little one.
One of the hardest feelings for a woman and a couple to tolerate is the longing for a child who won’t come.
There are many decisions to be made about how far to go and when to stop as you negotiate the labyrinth of choices, both medical and personal. At Tompkins and Associates, we are sensitive to what you are going through and seek to gently hold you as you manage this journey of hope.
The death of a child through miscarriage, stillbirth, or early infant death presents life’s most devastating loss. Absorbing this loss is profound – a pain that defies description. Lost is not only your child but also your belief in the goodness of life itself. Honoring the loss, questions of trying again, daring to hope, and loyalty to your lost child are all matters that need time and a safe place to gently unfold.
We offer a private, supportive place to bring your sorrow as you struggle to understand the unimaginable and eventually try to move forward.